Love Men's Edition. Did you know that men have the feeling that women get this relationship stuff faster than guys and they don't want to be pressured by a woman? Women try to hold men to a standard of performance and in doing so, criticize the man which backfires on them. Learn more in the book, 7 Ways to Fill Her Love Bucket. The 7 Ways to Fill Her Love Bucket is a book for men about the desires of women and how to fill the 7 desires. Phenomenal& A Practical Guide for Men to overcome challenges with the woman they love and to make love a priority in the bedroom and beyond says Bart Smith, Author of Laws of the Bedroom.